Blaming Industry

Oh my my~!

I have a list of topics to be shared but now I keep having quick sharing on the blog..somehow, do I look desperate enough to share? Guess I have the burning fire inside of me then..hahahaha!

OK..now what’s with the blaming industry? Why do I call blaming industry? I intended to put it as blaming tribe at first but I thought of it is growing somehow it can give up an industry then..cause one acted that way and later on influenced the other to follow..now it can a be an industry..producing like-to-blame-others people..done!

Then why do I describe that way? Ive been working for almost 3 years and ive been observing people’s act and behavior at my office..and ive found that whenever problems occurred, instead of finding the solutions, the tendency to find the culprit is greater..they tried to find the one who did the mistakes first..i was wondering, whats the good of finding that person first? Having teach by my former religious school few years back to always think good of people then I thought the reason they did that is to find the core of the problems so that the problems can be easily solved. However, the observation found the other way around..finding whos to blame is just for the sake there is somebody can be blamed for that mistake..i don’t really agree with this idea..and I found it to be very negative..why my observation said so? Cause once the culprit is found, then that’s it! Then later stories goes around talking bout the people’s mistakes..duhh! this is bad, no?

For me..i don’t really care who did the mistake..what matters most is can the problem be solved? What do we do to improve that so same mistakes will not happen in the future? Cause I believe this kind of culture makes people feel hard to be responsible for everything they did..even though they make mistakes..they keep it to themselves, afraid of penalty being put on them and later they’ll never learn..do you know ? being pointed and alone at the same time..it sucks big time!

Yesterday, it happened right in front of my eyes..the problem is simple though..yet someone has to be blamed..seeing adults trying to put the blame on someone really disgusts me..honestly speaking..and I also believe if we are on the same team and if anyone in the team tends to do the same mistakes every time..it’s not the individual mistake only..it can be the whole team’s mistake because they don’t support each other..unless we were really working alone..is there anyone working alone? please put up your hand so I can count..heh~

Again..why do we keep on trying to blame people?? We are not born perfect..so stop the blaming!!

*Trying to blame someone takes a ringgit away from you*

A simple thought... =)

Hey..it's been a while..with studying..plus work..plus soon to change to another phase of life..life is quite full nowadays..but im loving it..hehehe~

Ok..have something to share when I was at a shopping complex this afternoon ->spend my leisure time with my lovely sister..hehehe

story 1: we were at a bookstore when suddenly a mother and her child entered the bookstore..at that time, we heard the child said 'mak..jgn laju sgt..adek penat la..' hahaha..it was cute and funny!! then when i was searching for my book, i came across them and heard him saying 'mak..jgn lepaskn adek..nnt adek hilang..' while he was looking for his cartoon book..wow! he was cautious about everything..i really found that funny though..but it gave me a good thought cause i really hate it when i saw a mother doing her shopping without even realizing that her child is playing somewhere else..n later she losts her/him..darn!it is really an eyesore..a mother/parents supposed to be with the child at all time..they are their responsibility!

story 2: while we were walking to a super market to buy groceries..i happened to see a child holding her mother's hand and shes wearing a sleeveless dress..holding her mother's hand would mean shes exposing her underarm..but you know what she did? she covered it with her other hand..i was so amazed..a child at that age (maybe around 4-6 yrs old..from my view..heheh) is so shy to show off her underarm..but the adults..are proud of their underarm and love to share the view of their underarm to other people..it's really weird or it is normal?hahahahaha!! and yeah..i found that funny too!!

well..that are the two stories i wish to share..will share again more next time..heee~~

*Children is a bless from Allah who have the capabilities to teach the adults the basic of life*

w0rDinG~

Wow! It’s really been a while I didn’t write anything. I really wanted to write, I even got the list of topics to be shared but did not proceed with any. It may sound like an excuse but I believe this one attitude which I like to things that I dislike first before doing things that I like..So guess I like to write too..(maybe? Hahaha)

Since I have a little free time to write now..I decided to write again..free time here means I don’t have so much things to settle on my mind so I can focus on writing..hehe..I need to manage my time wisely la..huhu

OK..lets get to my topic..anyone who listen to Hitz fm must be aware of advertisement on nandos peri peri something..their ad is on their delicious meal (they claimed so..my sis agreed to that but I think the portion is too small la..) and in the ad they stress on people using same words repeated two times..and at the end said ‘because it’s so delicious, you have to say it twice’..

I have been listening to that quite many times since my car main radio station is hitz fm but everytime I always wonder why they use word ‘have’ instead of ‘want’..using ‘have’ at that particular statement sounds like you are force to do it rather than you are willing to do it..as in if want is used..it feels like because the food are really delicious, without any force, we are just willing to say it twice to show that it’s really delicious..no?

Doesn’t ‘because it’s delicious, you want to say it twice’ look more agreeable?

*This post is supposed to be published on 10 Jan but I forgot to publish..T_T

'Words have lots of meaning..'

A quick stop...

huwarghhh!! it's been a whileee~~ i wish i could write more..have a list of them..but currently too busy with work and study..

Oh Dear Blog aka Cumi (i just named you cumi..hehe),

I am really sorry I havent visited you and talked to you for quite a long time..I have been busy at the moment..I havent really got the time to even online my YM..LOL~ sounds too busy huh? I suppose yes..So, I will visit you again someday so that I can share my stories here..No worries, got plenty of them..

Why do I named you Cumi? Do you know Cumi is a squid in Indonesian Language..?I love squid so much specially the tempura one..haha..I can eat a bucket of em..LOL that tells how fat I am..urghhh!

Now that proves I love you bloggie..hehe..since I named you with a thing that I love soooo much!!

Will update again later..k?

Love,
Nana


*Love made you feel guilty when you are not in contact with your loved ones*

BBQ with family + Abah's Triathlon

The 3rd week of July...

Went to Port Dickson cuz abah participated in the thriathlon..Yeap it's kinda his partial obsession..he likes sports very much..specially cycling and swimming..he usually cycles during the weekends and sometimes he cycles to his office too..hehe..

So..we took the opportunity to have bbq together there..Note that it was my idea..hahaha..Initially I wanted to try new recipe I got from the internet..thats why I suggested we have bbq together..but then I was too busy with work I couldnt find the time to go home and marinade the beef and stuffs..so my sis marinaded em the usual way..huhuhu.. T_T maybe I can try it next time..yes there will definitely be next time..they fetched me at my home..ehehe..

time for picsss~~

the prep..

my family members..my eldest sister is not in d pic :(

tried to squeeze myself into the pic..ehehehe..

the arangss

the orang who handled arangs

yeahhh..the foooddddsss..nyummayhhh!!

after taking this pic, my dad said 'amekla gmba yg spontan..asek gmba pndg cam je..' hahahha~

my youngest sister..the light of the family..

ye..gmba abah yg SPONTAN..

yeap..this is me..hahahhaa..

my dad's triathlon..swimming..

next comes the cycling..my dad is in blue..too fast..cudnt manage to set d cam at a close distance..

my dad reaching the finishing line..

running..his finishing time is around 3 hrs and 24 minutes..

my happy dad..hahaha

so happy he didnt even look at the cam although I was like 'abah!! abah!! pndg sini! abahhhh!!' then i gv up..hahaha

So happy to be able to spend great activities with my family..it's extremely awesome!!

*Happy moments should be created more and more and more..*

Jacob's Walk of Life

Huwarghhh~~ blog's express updatesss!! hahaha..

Jacob's Walk of Life...hurm..it's a yearly event organized by Jacob's..the biscuit company..Do you like to eat Jacob's biscuits? for plain biscuit, i like hup seng better..but Jacob's oatmeal is the best..I still remember during my year at the MCIIUM, my roommate and I had a box of Jacob's oatmeal per week..A BOX..hahahha..so she bought one and me too..we usually had a stock for two weeks..then we bought it again for another two weeks of stocks..hahaha..when I told my mother this..she responsed 'Patutlah awak gemuk..' hahahaha..cruel,no?

Well, the common things Jacob's will have during this event are;

1.Yellow tshirt
2.Free biscuits
3.Free vouchers from Mizuno and I-cant-remember-the-name fitness centre
4.DJs like Fafau and FBI?
5.Jacobs bag and it's definitely yellow..

My family and I joined this event two yearly consecutively..it's like a yearly event for us too..for healthy lifestyle and for family bonding..ehehehe..too bad my eldest sister and her husband didnt join it this year..she has her CLP exam around that time..my dad too..he has other activities i guess..it was planned early than this event..

still..we had so much fun..and the tiredness level increased for this year due to the harder route than last year..hahaha..

The piccasss~

Pretending to be serious..LOL

Number fourth, The youngest, Mom, One and only brother at Number Third..hehehe

With me..Im Number Second in the sibling..ehehe

With Fafau..after having so much difficulties to get a pic with her..hahahha..and it's funny..

*Healthy lifestyle, Happy well being*

Merck Sherlock at The Pyramid..

Erkkk~~ it's been a while I didnt update anything..huhuhu~ yeap..been bz and the weekends were always full..hurmmm..

Firstly, Salam Ramadhan to all and myself..ehehehe~ hopefully, this month will bring us more bless..InsyaAllah..

Ok..I kept a list of things I want to update in my hp..afraid that I might forgot during the update progress..So far, I just had three of em..hahaha..very few, no? It's almost a month with no update and I have only three on the list??hahahaha..yeah..kinda funny..is it too obvious Im not really into writing?yeah..maybe?ehehehe

the first topic came up on the list was one of the staff at my office whom I dislike due to his hyprocrisy but I dont think I want to brag about him here..Hes tooooo boring n not funneyyhhh~

Now I only have two on the list..hahahha..

Lets start with sherlock at the pyramid..

If I can still recall, it was in the mid of July..it was organized by Merck Sdn Bhd..One of my suppliers..Initially, I just forwarded the email sent by the supplier to all the members in my department in case they are interested to join since I didnt plan on joining cuz I have jacob's walk of life with my family in the same week..but then when my boss read it..she asked me to take this as one the team building program for the members and she asked me to get them to participate in it..unfortunately only 10 places available for my company..and the members were about 15..

cut the story short..only 5 of us from my department and the other department joined it..it's like a treasure hunt event..thought it will tiring and boring..but turned out it was soooo fun..having to walk at sunway pyramid..searching for answers and there were bout 24 Qs..if im not mistaken..and to do the charade during the event..it was so much funnnnn..yet tiring..ehehehe..

here are the pics..hee~

Laila n K.Ijah while waiting for our leader to get the clue and questions..hehe

One of the tasks we need to do to get the answer..->get a picture of egyptians shopping..drawing money and etc etc..

Mr Sherlock was checking the progress.. ;D

While checking the progress..hehehe

At the end of the event..with Mr Sherlock..we lose actually..huhu..ranked at no 7 out of 35 groups? cudnt remember number of groups..

My group!! second from left is the group leader; Azrulein..

Had so much fun!! I didnt regret I joined it even if I knew tomorrow will be Jacob's walk of life and needed to wake up early in the morn..and I hate wake up early during the weekend..it's a no no ok..hahaha..anak dare pemalas x?

*Fun activities may boost up the energy at an amazing level..and reduce it tremendously once it's over..*